Sunday, August 11, 2024

Living with Superstition. To what extent is your life influenced by superstition?

  Living with Superstition

To what extent is your life influenced by superstition?

Sort out each item if it is based on science, a known fact, or just merely a belief or thought. Add on to the list your own experiences, and those you may have observed or heard in the place where you live, and places you may have visited. Better still, make it a kind of hobby, or study, to have a running collection - it might turn out to become into a book, or an encyclopedia of sort. - avr 

Dr Abe V Rotor 
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1.    Forego your trip when a black cat crosses your path – it is bad luck.

2.    Don’t clean the house at night, more so, if you sweep the dirt out of the door. You drive good luck away, (Lalabas ang suwerte.)

3.    If you get lost in the wilderness, reverse your shirt, so that you will be able find your way back.

4.    Tikbalang (Filipino version of a centaur) comes out when it is raining  while the sun is out.

5.    Three persons in a picture means the one at the middle will die.

6.    A mole (taling) on the sole indicates the person is a wanderer (gala’).

7.    A mole (taling) located along the path of tears means the person is going to be widowed.

8.    Bride must never try her bridal gown before the wedding; the ceremony might not push through.

9.    Don’t hang on the window; you court bad luck.

10. Itchy palm means you are going to have money.

11. Keep your fingers close together and if light seeps through between them, it means you are not frugal.

12. Singing while cooking means you are going to remain a bachelor or spinster – or marry someone much older than you.

13.  A victim of maternal impression (paglilihi) loses pep (sigla) and may even get sick.

14. If a pregnant woman is in labor, never sit at the center of the stair.    

15. A comet in the sky means war is coming.

16. Eat raw eggs to enhance easy delivery of your baby.

17. A pregnant mother should not eat eggplant, else her baby will have dark complexion.   

18. One who cries every time she cuts onions means she does not love her father- and mother-in-law (biyanan).

19. Taking a bath immediately after ironing clothes will make you sick of leprosy.

20. If a pregnant woman eats eggs, her child will be born blind.

21. Full moon causes abnormal behavior.  People who are affected by this belief are called lunatics.

22. Beware of Friday the 13th, you might meet an accident.

23. No two siblings should marry within the same year, otherwise their marriages will not be successful.

24. When someone gives you a footwear as a gift, be sure to pay him any amount in order to break the omen that you will be “kicked” or pushed around.

25. When the pregnant wife skips or walks over (laktawan) her husband, the husband will bear the burden of paglilihi (maternal impression).

26. If you want a person to be sad and to cry often, give him or her  a handkerchief as a gift.

27. One who is about to be wed must remain at home to avoid accident.

28. Avoid having your feet pointed at the door while sleeping.

29. Prepare rice cake like suman and tikoy on New Year so that good luck will stick around.    

30. When planting be sure your stomach is full, so that you will get good harvest.

31.  If you accidentally break a glass or china, get a similar one and break it, otherwise bad luck will haunt you.

32.  Breaking a mirror means “seven years itch.”

33.  If you dream you lost a tooth, it means is bad luck.  To break the omen, silently go to a tree and tell your dream so that it will be the tree that will suffer.

Breaking a mirror means "a seven-year itch life."  Seven-year itch is a term that describes feeling restless or dissatisfied in a relationship, typically around the seven-year mark.

34. Needle bought in the afternoon is likely to rust.

35. A birthday celebrant must take extra precaution against accident, so with a new graduate. 

36. The bride should not look behind while marching the aisle, otherwise the wedding will not be disrupted.

37. The number of steps of a stair is based on the alternate oro (gold)-plata (silver) formula.  Aim for oro in the last or highest step.

38. Wearing bright clothes, especially red, on your birthday makes the day happy.

39. After the wedding the man must exit first from the church so that he will not become a henpeck husband. 

40. Don’t give your loved one a necklace, otherwise your relationship will not last.

41. Don’t allow your friend to remove your ring, otherwise you will quarrel.

42. Kill a chicken for a new born baby as an offering.  

43. Sweeping or cleaning the house while a dead relative is in wake will lead to the death of another member of the family.

44. Eating jackfruit during menstruation is prohibited otherwise the woman will get sick and even die.

45. When planting sitao (string bean), place a comb on your hair to induce the production of abundant long fruits.

      46. Eating chicken cooked with squash will cause leprosy.

47. A woman on her menstrual period should not visit a garden or orchard otherwise the plants will become sick or die.

48. To know if it is true jade, it remains cool even if the body is warm.

49. Beware of the werewolf. Man can turn into a wolf, and vice versa.

50. Eight (8) is a lucky number; 8 is infinity. It means money will circulate.

51.  Four (4) means in Chinese C or death. Every time you reach an age with the number 9 or 4, take precaution; you are prone to accident.

52. Don’t cut fingernails at night; it’s bad luck.

53. In Chinese marriage, the woman walks backward led by a relative to be delivered to the bridegroom.

54. If a child keeps spitting, it will rain.

55. If you point at the moon your will suffer a cut.

56. Babies smile at angels we don’t see.

     57. Fixed marriage at birth is good luck.

58. Chinese calendar is late by two months – New Year is in February.
     Chinese age starts one year at birth. 

59. Palm lines may change, so with our lives.

60. Blessed palm on Easter Sunday is hang at the door for good luck.

61. First cut hair and fingernails of a baby must be kept in a book so that he will be intelligent.

62. Wearing black is symbol of mourning; to the Chinese it is wearing all white.
Lady luck is on your side  
if you find a four-leaf clover. 

63.  Among the Chinese, miniaturized house, car and the like, go with the departed to assure him of a happy afterlife. 

64. In a Chinese temple, you offer food to the gods, and then eat it after.  This is not the case in Filipino custom; just leave the food offering (atang).

65. To the Chinese, paper money goes with the dead; it will be converted into real money in afterlife.

66.  Light candles outside of the house during All Saints Day in deference to  of the souls of the dead and the unseen.

67. When you happen to encounter a funeral entourage, throw some coins in respect of the dead.  

68. Don’t stand in front of a gate if you are pregnant.

69. If by mistake it’s the bride that hands over the arras to the bridegroom, expect that she will be the breadwinner. 

70. Diamond studded wedding rings do not make a perfect relationship.

71. When blessing a new vehicle, sprinkler fresh blood of chicken in tires and engine to bad omen of accident.

72. Place some coins in the foundation of buildings and other structures during ground breaking ceremony to make them strong and withstand time.

73. Children are sacrificed in making bridges and other infrastructure.

74. Bury placenta with rosary and pencil so that the child will be both intelligent and God-fearing.

75. Palms with crisscross lines (rapas Ilk) means the person is cruel.

76. Palms with netted lines means the person has an unorganized life (magulong buhay).

77. Shake (pagpagin) the items such as clothes after a customer had left without buying any, to break bad luck.

78. Place money in a bed pan (arinola), so that it becomes plentiful.

79. Babies that fall from their cradle do not suffer injury, thanks to their guardian angels.

80. When you give a wallet as gift be sure you put a coin or a money bill in it so that the wallet won’t run out of money.

81. When transferring to a new house carry with you 24 oranges, salt, water, and rice.

82. Jade stones around the wrist of a baby indicate his condition.  If they turn light in color the baby is not well.

83. When transferring a dead person into the house, be sure it is head first; when taking him out, it is feet first.
 Beware! It's Friday, the 13.

100. Bed must not face the door, otherwise the sleeping person will become a   victim of bangongot.

101. Don’t bump the coffin while carrying it; it is bad luck.

102. Pour water at the doorway once the coffin has been taken out.

103. Wash face and hands after the dead has been laid to rest.

104. When coming from a wake have a stopover somewhere and do not directly go home, otherwise the spirit of the dead will follow you.

105. The wishbone of a chicken makes a wholesome game for two. Wish comes true to the one who gets the common stem of the Y-shape bone.

106.  One can determine the sex of the baby by the poise and shape of the pregnant woman. If rotund, it’s going to be a girl; if pointed, it’s going to be a boy.           

107. During labor, if the pain is bearable and continuous, it’s going to be a girl; if labor pain is intermittent and intense, it’s going to be a boy.

108. When leaving the dining table ahead, those who are still eating must rotate their plates, otherwise they will remain bachelors or spinsters. (The belief is silent on the fate of the married ones.)

109. Couple to be married the following day must not see each other the night before.

110. When Friday comes don’t talk about the supernatural, such as kapre, dwende, and the like.

111. Never buy a cat; it will not be a good mouse catcher.

112. If a cat sneezes it’s going to rain.  But if it sneezes three times, everyone in the family will catch cold.

113. A cat that has its back towards the fire means a typhoon in coming.

114. Unfortunate events usually happen on full moon.

115. Whenever you go to a church for the first time make three wishes.

116. If you buy a stuffed or figurine elephant, choose one with its trunk turned upward.  It means good luck.

Kapre, a hairy black monster, lives in this old balete tree

117. Don’t open the umbrella inside the house; vermin will come out.

118. When planting beans, place a comb on your hair to induce the production of abundant long fruits.

119. Orange clouds are bad omen; they are signs of either drought or poor harvest.

120. If you accidentally bite your tongue it means someone is speaking about you.

121. Knock only twice – not thrice, else you court the attention of the devil.

122. Sleep with your head toward the east or north to prevent nightmares.

123. To keep luck for yourself and the family hang a horseshoe with its tips up.  If you want your luck to be shared with those who enter your house, hang it the opposite way.

124. If your nose itches, someone is thinking about you.

126. Never take home flowers from the cemetery, otherwise someone is going to die.

127. Eating sour fruits during menstruation will cause menstruation to stop.

128. Girls on their very first day of menstruation are asked to jump down from the third step of the stairs in order to limit their monthly period to three days only. 

129.  A girl on her very first day of menstruation is asked to wipe her face with her stained underwear so that she will have a beautiful, fair and acne-free face.

130. Peanuts eaten raw will make one intelligent.

131. A cogon grass tied around the one’s head or waistline is a protection against lightning, especially in the open field.

132. If the money spent on wedding was borrowed, the couple will always be in debt.

133. A pregnant woman should not scratch her tummy, otherwise she will develop stretch marks.

134. Bite the tip of your new shoes to avoid developing blister (paltos or kapuyo Ilk).

135. A conceiving mother who enjoys looking at the corn hair will give birth to a brown-haired baby.

136. Calachuche or frangipani growing in the front of a house brings bad luck.

137. Pomelo (Citrus maxima) growing in front of, or bear a house, brings bad luck.

138. Katuray (Sesbania grandiflora) planted in front of a house might bring about a broken home or the disruption of good family relationships.

139. A woman should not be the first to gather sweet potato (kamote), otherwise the roots will crack.

140. Bury a big coconut shell along with the first potato yam seedling in order that the plant with produce big roots.

141. One must not spit in the fields while planting because it brings bad luck.

142. Offering native cakes under the tree will please the spirits (anitos). 

143. Eating malunggay (Moringa oleracea) when somebody dies will cause another death to follow.

144. Certain seasons during which children become suddenly fond of playing games like sungka, marbles, jackstone. And the like, are expected to bring good harvest.

145. Playing sungka is bad because of the nature of the game to “kill” your opponent.

146. Do not plant on Tuesdays and Fridays because they are unlucky days.

147. Bury some pieces of beeswax along with squash seeds when planting so that the fruits produced will be glutinous (malagkit).

148. A person who eats any ripe fruit that is partly eaten by a mouse will develop twinkling eyes.

149. Do not eat leafy vegetables on New Year’s Day else you will be sickly the whole year.
150. Don’t cook leafy vegetables at the time of planting otherwise the plants will wither.

Owls have long been viewed as harbingers of bad luck and even death. One myth tells us that bad luck will befall anyone who hears an owl hoot three times. Another wild myth claims that owls are the only creatures that can live with ghosts.

151. Don’t harm the señora, the matron rat; otherwise it will destroy more things in the house. In India rats are believed to be the re-incarnation of dead ancestors.  Sometimes rats are called kabas, meaning little children, so that they are often treated with favor.

151. Papaya with fruits borne on elongated stem (peduncle) is said to be bisexual (bakla).  The male papaya bears only staminate flowers, never any fruit; while the female produces the typical fruits we are familiar with.

152. Avoid mending clothes at night; it might cause blindness. 

153. Avoid taking home food in a wake; otherwise a close relative is going to die.

154. Cat purring means it is comfortable in your company and care.

155. During funeral never look back, otherwise somebody is going to die.

156. Walking under a ladder brings bad luck.

157. If ants transfer to another place, the rainy season is near.

158. You will increase in height if you jump at exactly 12 o’clock noon.

159. Never buy needle at night, it will rust, so with the rest of the needles.

160. If you keep a cactus, you will remain single forever.

161. If a butterfly lands on you it means you are visited by the soul of a close relative.

162. Loves me, loves me not, is a favorite wish game, plucking petals of a flower one by one until you reach the last.

163. If a bee enters your house, it’s a sign that you will soon have a visitor.  If you kill the bee you will have bad luck or the visitor is unpleasing one.

164. A swarm of bees settling on the roof is an omen the house will burn down.

165. A bird that enters the house is a sign of death.

166. If you blow all the candles out with a single puff, you will get your birthday wish.

167. The elevator does not open on the 13th floor.

168. It’s bad to expose a pregnant woman’s belly to photo flash – she will give birth to a baby with physical defect.

169. It’s bad luck to cut nails on Fridays and Saturdays.

170. Our shadow is our soul.  A person who thinks he does not have any shadow will be mistaken to be a devil. 

171. When a pencil suspended with string is placed over the wrist of a pregnant woman, and swings along the length of the arm, the baby in the womb is a likely a boy.  If it swings across the arm the baby is a girl.

172. Banana with freckles and discolorations means it is sweet.

173. Water the plants with hugas bigas (rice washing), and they will grow fast and healthy.

174. Don’t take a bath during the wake of an immediate family member.

175. Put salt on the lower corners of the door jamb before going out of the house.

176. Egg shells induce flowering of orchids.

177. Place charcoal inside a refrigerator to remove bad odor. Vinegar does the trick, too. 
178. Wipe kitchen and dining tables with mild solution of natural vinegar to repel ants and other vermin.

179. If the first butterfly you see on New Year is white, you will have good luck throughout the year.

180. If a lighted candled during a ceremony dies out, it means evil spirits are around.

181. If a black cat walks towards you, you will have good fortune; if it walks away from you, it takes away good luck.

182. Keep cats away from babies because they will suck out their breaths.

183. If a clock that has not been working suddenly chimes, it means there will be death in the family.

184. It is bad luck to pick up a coin with the tail side up; good luck when its head up.

185. Cows lifting their tails mean it’s going to rain.

186. A cricket in the house brings good luck.

187. If an eyelash falls out, put it on the back of you hand, make a wish and throw it over your shoulder. If it flies off the hand, the wish will be granted. 

188. Fingernails cuttings should be saved, burned or buried.

189. If the bottom of your right foot itches, you are going to take a trip.

190. Pulling out a gray or while hair will cause ten more to grow in its place.

191. If the palm of your right hand itches, it means you will soon be getting money.  If the palm of your left hand itches, it means you will soon be paying out money.

192. A mirror should be covered during a thunderstorm because it attracts lightning.

193. An onion cut in half and placed under the bed of a sick person will draw off fever and poison.

194. Wishes on shooting stars come true.

195. Tail of house lizards is cure for asthma.

196. Ones saliva can relieve itchiness caused by mosquito bite.

197. Poultice of gumamela flowers hastens “ripening” of boil (pigsa).

198. Turtles as pet bring bad luck.

199. Snakes have good memory, never spare their lives because they can take revenge.

200. Refrain from talking while planting so the chicken will not destroy your plants.
201. When cockroaches are flying about, there’s plenty of fish to catch.

It is called the "padugo" ritual or "blood-spilling," wherein the blood of a sacrificed animal—usually a chicken or pig, is sprinkled on the construction site and functions as an offering meant to appease spirits residing in the land to prevent the spilling of human blood, such as through accidents during construction.  Internet

202. Don’t sleep with your head pointed to the north.  Blood is drawn to your head due to magnetism, similar to a compass needle.

203. Whenever you give birth, plant a tree because a tree grows fast and means good health - so with your baby.

204. There are times you have to turn back because you have forgotten something.  Before you start again alight from your vehicle, or take a few steps, to break the bad omen.
205. To get good grades place your review notes or book under your pillow and sleep on it.   

“Sleeping with a book under your pillow is a great thing to do if you’re trying to absorb its information. This is a great technique to aid in studying and manifestation as your subconscious will soak up the energy of your book while you sleep.” - M. Backlund (Internet).


Acknowledgement: Internet, Living with Nature Series, Living with Folk Wisdom by AVRotor, UST  2008-23

Friday, August 9, 2024

Solemn Commemoration of the 79th anniversary of Hiroshima and Nagasaki Atomic Bombing. "Peace is the world's heritage." - Nagasaki survivor

  Solemn Commemoration of the 79th anniversary of Hiroshima and Nagasaki Atomic Bombing

Researched by Dr Abe V Rotor

Solemn commemoration of the 79th anniversary of Hiroshima and Nagasaki atomic bombings. The United States dropped the world's first atomic bomb on Hiroshima on Aug. 6, 1945, destroying the city and killing 140,000 people. A second attack three days later on Nagasaki killed 70,000 more people.
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"If only that child is alive today..."  
Song presented by schoolchildren at the Nagasaki Memorial, 
August 8, 2024

1. In solemn memory of the victims of WWII Atomic bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. 
On August 6, 1945, during World War II (1939-45), an American B-29 bomber dropped the world’s first deployed atomic bomb over the Japanese city of Hiroshima. The explosion wiped out 90 percent of the city and immediately killed 80,000 people; tens of thousands more would later die of radiation exposure. Three days later, a second B-29 dropped another A-bomb on Nagasaki, killing an estimated 40,000 people. Japan’s Emperor Hirohito announced his country’s unconditional surrender in World War II in a radio address on August 15, citing the devastating power of “a new and most cruel bomb.”
 Dr Abe V Rotor


 
Atomic bomb obliterates Hiroshima, ends WWII, immediately killing 80,000 people.

                        Among the few buildings that survived after the plutonium
 bomb decimated Nagasaki is the Christian church.

"Peace is the world's heritage." 
- Nagasaki survivor (79th anniversary message, August 8, 2024 
at the bomb's memorial site)

2. Memory of Hiroshima and Nagasaki A-Bombing
Enshrined in an Old Industry  

I was a very young child barely 5, in a small town in the Philippines, youngest in the family of three, when this dreadful, ignominious incident took place. I was sort of helping my widowed father in our small basi wine cellar.  

Impressions, innocent they may be in early age, seek their true expressions in later age and may remain indelible. As these become integrated with those of others and the whole of humanity for that matter, they become public images which we know today 79 years after.  

When I retired from government service and from the academe, and returned to my ancestral home, a scenario of my childhood about the Second World War, flashed in my mind like a nightmare. The Hiroshima and Nagasaki A-Bombing!  

On my part, reviving a dying art and industry, is my humble compassion with the victims, and a small contribution to world peace. 

Basi wine brewed in commemoration of the Hiroshima and Nagasaki atomic bombings' 75th anniversary in 2017. One jar (250 liters) is still undergoing aging to this day. This year marks the 79th anniversary of the apocalyptic incidents that ended World War II in 1945.  Living with Nature wine cellar, San Vicente, Ilocos Sur.)

 
Basi wine undergoing aging in glazed jars (burnay) in an 18th century wine cellar 
- a tourists' attraction. Living with Nature Center, San Vicente, Ilocos Sur

 
Basi and fruit wine for balikbayan, (returning and visiting residents) 
and tourists
"Never again..."
António Guterres, Secretary-General of the United Nations,
79th Nagasaki commemoration message

"Japan to lead a world without nuclear weapon..."
- PM Fumio Kishida's message Nagasaki Memorial Aug 8, 2024 ~

Children and Nature - An Omnipotent Treaty

Children and Nature - An Omnipotent Treaty 

Wall Mural by Dr Abe V Rotor (7ft x 90ft)


"A thing of beauty is a boy forever." wall mural painted by the author at his city residence, Barangay Greater Lagro, QC

Three young musketeers are set to conquer the world
     away from the mall, home and school;
If Tom Sawyer and Huck Finn were real and alive today,
     we wouldn't know who's genius, who's fool.

Who is the primitive, who is the civilized, oh brother!
     when we prefer the city over the quaint village,
car for walking distance, processed over fresh food,
     philosophy over instinctive knowledge.

Everything defined in rich vocabulary, but a rose is a rose
     and nothing else, energy to matter and back,
universal cycles no genius will ever truly understand,
     Homo sapiens! it is humility we lack.

Innocence in children, we make up for the falsehood
     of the world of grownups and sages;
Einstein and Darwin never knew the whys of the world,
     children have been asking for ages.

If genius is reborn in the innocence of children,
     and knowledge into wisdom distilled,
treasured in old age for the young ones' sake -
     providence and humanity sealed. ~

“When we are children we seldom think of the future. This innocence leaves us free to enjoy ourselves as few adults can. The day we fret about the future is the day we leave our childhood behind.” ― Patrick Rothfuss, The Name of the Wind

 
 
 
 
“I do not miss childhood, but I miss the way I took pleasure in small things, even as greater things crumbled. I could not control the world I was in, could not walk away from things or people or moments that hurt, but I took joy in the things that made me
happy.” ― Neil Gaiman, The Ocean at the End of the Lane


“and when all the wars are over, a butterfly will still be beautiful.” ― Ruskin Bond, Scenes from a Writer's Life



Children and Nature “Because children grow up, we think a child's purpose is to grow up. But a child's purpose is to be a child. Nature doesn't disdain what lives only for a day. It pours the whole of itself into the each moment. We don't value the lily less for not being made of flint and built to last. Life's bounty is in its flow, later is too late. Where is the song when it's been sung? The dance when it's been danced?

It's only we humans who want to own the future, too. We persuade ourselves that the universe is modestly employed in unfolding our destination. We note the haphazard chaos of history by the day, by the hour, but there is something wrong with the picture. Where is the unity, the meaning, of nature's highest creation? Surely those millions of little streams of accident and willfulness have their correction in the vast underground river which, without a doubt, is carrying us to the place where we're expected! But there is no such place, that's why it's called utopia.

The death of a child has no more meaning than the death of armies, of nations. Was the child happy while he lived? That is a proper question, the only question. If we can't arrange our own happiness, it's a conceit beyond vulgarity to arrange the happiness of those who come after us.”
 ― Tom Stoppard, The Coast of Utopia

“Anybody who has survived his childhood has enough information about life to last him the rest of his days.”
 
― Flannery O'Connor, Mystery and Manners: Occasional Prose

Tuesday, August 6, 2024

In Celebration of International Youth Day August 12, 2024: Two Stories about Friendship and Career

In Celebration of International Youth Day August 12, 2024:

2 Stories about Friendship and Career  

Dr Abe V Rotor

1 – Friendship and Loyalty

Once there were two friends Tony and Ben who grew up together in the same neighborhood, went to school together, often on the same bicycle. They were teammates in basketball – Tony the taller played center, and Ben guard-forward. On drinking spree, whoever gives up first is helped by the other to be able to reach home.

Tom Sawyer (right) and Huck Finn, characters of Mark Twain's novels, represent genuine friendship of two boys in rural America in the 18th century. This anecdote depicts the opposite of this respected tradition of friendship. 

Then one fine morning when they were walking in the woods they encountered a big black bear. They had trespassed in its lair. Tony and Ben know how ferocious this 500-pound beast could get. Without any warning the bear took off for a chase. The two friends ran for their lives. Tony climbed a nearby tree, while Ben could do nothing but to lay prostrate on the ground feigning dead.

Here came the bear, sniffed the motionless body, groaned and lapped the face and nape. It was the scariest moment in Ben’s life. He drifted from consciousness, When he woke up he saw Tony beside him.

The two started to walk for home without a word. It was eerie quiet along the way until Tony broke the silence. “Tell me what the bear whispered, Ben.”

“Oh, yes.. The bear told me never to trust a friend who is a coward.’”

On recovering from the frank answer Tony begged, “Paki-usap lang, Ben. Can we keep this incident a secret? Just the two of us … please.”

“Sure, no problem.” Came a flat, cold answer.

A week had passed when Ben received a visitor, a relative. She heard of the incident. “Poor Tony he was nearly devoured by a black bear!” She even made a sign of the cross. 

She left Ben with clenched fists and bare teeth.

The incident severed the years long friendship of the two, never to be restored.

But providence made the two meet again, this time in a mall in the city. They hardly recognized each other. But age left familiar marks to keep memory alive. Ben had a small boy by his side, serious in his look and uneasy.

Tony took the soft side of the tense conversation, shifted his attention to the boy. “And who is this cute little boy? Tell me, what’s your name, little man.” and cocked his ear for an answer.

The boy hid behind and mumbled. “Come again?”

Ben came to the rescue, “BB, daw” with a tinge of sarcasm.

“Baby? But he’s already grown up.?”

“No, BB – Black Bear.” Silence, then both roared into uncomfortable laughter.

“He is my grandson, BB Jr.” Another uproar, then the mall fell silent. x x x

Does friendship really build loyalty? Does it promote patriotism? There’s a saying, “Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.” If we can’t even keep our commitment in friendship, how can we build one on a higher plane, on the level of sacrifice, service, altruism and the like which are denominators of “love of country, defend its cause … “that this country shall be great again.” How far have these two friends reached on the Maslow ladder (Hierarchy of Needs), and say at the end, “We have reached the level of self-actualization.” Maybe yes for Ben, but that’s another story.

2. Career and Patriotism

It is customary to conduct an informal survey on what courses senior students would pursue in college. Schools take pride of their graduates, especially their outstanding alumni.

As the school year was about to end and the members of the graduating class were very eager to enter college, the teacher a kindly old lady, asked each one what career he or she will pursue. It was a sort of open forum and the teacher emphasized the zeal of patriotism and nationalism. She premised on what one can do to a fellowman.

The first respondent, one among the top students, rose, “Ma’am, I’ll be a doctor, a physician.” To which the teacher asked the reason, “to take care of the health and to heal my sick fellowman.” The teacher smiled and nodded.

Came a hand up from behind. “And what will you become Henry?” asked the teacher.

“I’ll be a soldier, ma’am – and become a general - if I can.” “And… ,” “Ma’am, I’ll defend my fellowman, even to die for him.”

No sooner did Ma’am Lapeña see so many hands vying for the next to share. “Ma’am I’ll be an engineer. I ‘ll build farm-to-market-roads so that my fellowman would not be walking to town.”

Ma’am Lapeña was thrilled by the eagerness of her students. Wouldn’t you if you were in her shoes? They have their dreams – lofty, too. Pharmacist, pilot, scientist, biologist, meteorologist, architect, businessman, even astronaut.

Except one at a corner. His thoughts seemed very far. “How about the young man over there?” Ma’am Lapeña pointed at Juan. All heads followed.

Scratching his head he stood up, look at Ma’am Lapeña. “Yes?”

“Ma’am, simple lang, po. I like to be that fellowman.” The whole class burst into raucous laughter. The school principal who was passing by peeped and grimed, wondering.

“OK, class sit down, please everyone take your seat. Write an essay.”

“About our future careers, Ma’am? “

“No, no, about Juan, the fellowman.”

Juan Tamad is a comic character, likened if not worst than Rip Van Winkle who slept for twenty long tears. But we have accepted him - myth and real – erasing the guilt of pointing a person like him. To an extent, Juan Tamad jolts one from his lazy bench. One good thing about him is that, he is assumed to have no other vices. ~

Acknowledgement: Internet photo and cartoon

Monday, August 5, 2024

In Celebration of International Youth Day August 12, 2024: Lives of Great Men and Women – Selected Models for Today’s Youth

 International Youth Day August 12, 2024

 Lives of Great Men and Women – Selected Models for Today’s Youth

Dr Abe V Rotor 

This year, we honor the incredible impact of young people in driving digital innovation for sustainable development. The theme, “From Clicks to Progress: Youth Digital Pathways for Sustainable Development,” highlights the vital role that digitalization plays in achieving the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs).

Young Charles Darwin after his historic voyage on the
Beagle as naturalist. He was to become the father of
the theory of evolution named after him - Darwinism.

It is said, that indeed everyone is great in his or her own way, if greatness is measured by ones ultimate capacity to do good, and goodness means being of service to others and of contributing something, even only a drop in the bucket, so to speak, towards betterment of mankind, and of making this world a better place to live in. Nay, but how so few come to the knowledge of others for the good they have done. They are like the unknown soldier. They are like what Thomas Gray PHOTO said in his famous poem “Elegy on the Country Churchyard.”


“Full many a gem of purest ray serene
The deep unfathomed caves the ocean bear;
Full many a flower is born to blush unseen,
And wastes their sweetness in the desert air.”
                                                         - Thomas Gray 

The poem makes us think though, that if we do not make use of that which can make us great, then we are like the obscure gem under the sea and the blooming flower in the desert.

Amongst us stand rare and distinct men and women who have excelled, more than most of us have ever done. Their contributions are of outstanding significance that has invariably affected us, our way of living, our thinking and even our perception of the future. And indeed if we have to look back without them we would doubt if ever we would be in the present state we are in. What would the world be without them?

Undoubtedly too, greatness is mirrored not only on the norms of how most of us live and would like to live, but on how these rare breed of men and women perceived ideas beyond their time in the way of the pioneer, in space and in time that few would dare to travel by, which in the words of Robert Frost goes like this –

“I will be telling you this with a sigh,
Ages and ages hence where two roads meet in a wood.
And I, I took the road less traveled by.
And that is what made the difference.”
                                           - Robert Frost 

How many people dare to take the road less traveled? How many of us found true freedom while treading on it? How many of us have dared to take the road of truth? The lonely road, the road barely a path? And to beat it in order to make one? Is it a choice? Is it fate? And fate we associate with gift – or luck we often refer to as serendipity?

Our world goes around and around, fortunate that there are people whose ideas were born ahead of their time? From these ideas bloomed into many ideas that found expression in a multitude of ways that feed of rationality as being and society. It is to these people to whom we dedicate this lesson in Paaralang Bayan sa Himpapawid*. In so doing we may lay down an alternative path and present models of living particularly to the youth of today.

We have chosen for this purpose the following great men and women from various nations (We will be featuring separately great Filipinos in future lessons, though a number of them will be associated with the names of these international figures.)

1. Charles Darwin – Interpreter of the pattern of life, founder of theory of evolution
2. Louis Pasteur – Father of immunology, science in the service of man
3. Florence Nightingale – Founder of the nursing profession (PHOTO)
4. Mother Teresa of Calcutta – The living saint.
5. Joan of Arc – The saint who freed France

6. Albert Schweitzer – Road of “the life of service”
7. Abraham Lincoln – Champion in the emancipation of slavery
8. Jose Rizal – The pride of the Malay race
9. Francis of Assisi – Father of Ecology, the “upside down” Saint
10. Robert Baden-Powell – Chief scout of the world

11. Leonardo da Vinci – The man of many minds
12. Pablo Picasso – Painter of an epoch
13. Anna Pavlova – Prima Ballarina
14. Ludwig van Beethoven Stormy genius of music
15. Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart – Prodigy whose genius is therapy

16. Galileo – Greatest of early scientist
17. Carolus Linnaeus – Introduced systematic classification of living things
18. Juan Luna PHOTO – His Spolarium inspired a people to gain freedom
19. Fernando Amorsolo – Master of romantic-classical painting
20. Thomas Alva Edison – Man of practical knowledge


21. Wilbur and Orville Wright – Conquerors of the Air
22. Charles Dickens – Life of the imagination
23. Gregor Mendel – Founder of the laws of heredity
24. Ramon Magsaysay – Champion of the masses PHOTO right
25. Christopher Columbus – Discoverer of a new world

26. Alexander the Great – Conqueror of Kings
27. Socrates – Man of Character
28. John F Kennedy – Charismatic American leader.
29. William Shakespeare – Greatest dramatist
30. Mao Tze Tung – Steered The Sleeping Giant China to become a modern nation

31. Ho Chi Minh - Vietnamese national hero
32. Pierre and Marie Curie - Discoverers of Radium
33. Herr Daimler and Herr Benz - Inventors of the horseless carriage
34. Thomas Alba Edison - the man of practical genius, inventor of the incandescent lamp
35. George Bernard Shaw - the Irish Shakespeare

36. David Livingstone - Christian explorer in Africa
37. Sir Walter Raleigh - The last Elizabethan
38. Socrates - Father of Philosophy, the man of character
39. Franklin Delano Roosevelt - The People's President
40. Mohandas K Gandhi - Man of peace, man of the last millennium

Author poses with wax statue of Gandhi in Singapore.
 
Characters that accompany greatness
1. Genetic propensity, genius, talented
2. Meeting challenge in early life
3. Endurance of pain and various trials
4. Persistence, often stubbornness,
5. Resoluteness
6. dedication
7. Inquisitiveness
8. enthusiasm
9. Pioneering
10. Humility
11. Sacrifice
12. selflessness
13. Courageous,
14. Steel character
15. Competitiveness, often against oneself
16. Accuracy
17. Perfectionism
18. Strong character
19. Grateful
20. Admired, vice versa

The other “side of midnight” in the lives of many great men and women may be characterized by the following:

1. Short-lived
2. Unhappy
3. Loner
4. Turbulent
5. Sickly/with infirmity
6. Misunderstood
7. Outcast
8. Maligned
9. Non-conformist
10. Poor, and the like.

Challenge to the radio audience of Paaralang Bayan sa Himpapawid (School-on-Air)

1. Tell something about the legendary character - The Boy who Save Holland
2. “Serve the greatest good for the greatest number of people.” Is this parameter a good measure of how great a deed we have done?
3. Greatness can be demonstrated by certain leaders in our local community. What are the qualities of these leaders?

LESSON on former Paaralang Bayan sa Himpapawid (People's School-on-Air) Ka Abe V Rotor and Melly C Tenorio; 738 DZRB AM Band, 8 to 9 evening, Monday to Friday x x x

Saturday, August 3, 2024

Self Administered Test on Childhood (True or False, 25 items). In celebration of World Breastfeeding Week (Aug 1 to 7), and National Breastfeeding Month (August 2024)

  Self Administered Test on Childhood (True or False, 25 items)

World Breastfeeding Week is held in the first week of August every year, supported by WHO, UNICEF and many Ministries of Health and civil society partners. The theme for 2024 is Closing the gap: Breastfeeding support for all. 

Breastfeeding is the recommended method of feeding by all major infant health organizations. If breastfeeding is not possible or desired, bottle feeding is done with expressed breast-milk.

Dr Abe V Rotor

Living with Nature - School on Blog

1. Proper dental care begins even before a baby’s first tooth appears.

Two-month old baby starts communicating  through sounds and smile.  

2. One of the most dreaded diseases - one of the top 10 causes of death among children of any age group - is tuberculosis.

3. The brain is one of the very first things to develop in an embryo, even before other organs have developed.

4. If you spend a lot of time reading and talking to your child, neurons will make connections in the part of the brain that controls language, strengthening it in the process.

5. A child is born with the brain cells that give him the capacity to develop many kinds of skills.

6.. Keep in mind that negative experiences adversely influence the development of your child’s brain.

7. Toys are not necessarily divided into categories for kids of different ages - as long as these are entertaining and educational.

8. Action figures are not healthy to the development of young children – they make them prone to violence.

9. A baby actually does not learn through playing – he is only amused and entertained.

10. One of the best things you can do for your child is to get him to start reading. It is a gift that remains with him throughout his life. But you should wait until he has reached pre-schooling age.

11. The term infant derives from the Latin word infans, meaning "unable to speak." It is typically applied to children between the ages of 1 month and 12 months .

12.Toddlers are generally vaguely defined as a child between 1 and 2 years, and generally signifies a child who can walk but who can not walk well.

13. Breastfeeding is the recommended method of feeding by all major infant health organizations. If breastfeeding is not possible or desired, bottle feeding is done with expressed breast-milk.

14. Stress can affect anyone - even kids – but they are the least affected.

15. Many kids are too busy to have time to play creatively or relax after school. Kids complain about the number of activities they're involved in. It's likely that they're overscheduled.

16. Kids' stress may be intensified by more than just what's happening in their own lives. They too, worry when parents talk about illnesses, problems about financial matters, etc.

Starting to help oneself early is important in child development

17. World news can not cause stress to kids – they are too young to appreciate this matter.

18. Mood swings, acting out, changes in sleep patterns, or bedwetting, thumb sucking, hair twirling, or nose picking, bullying, or defying authority — can be indications of stress.

19. These are signs of child neglect:1. Unsuitable clothing for weather, 2. Dirty or unbathed 3. Extreme hunger, 4. Apparent lack of supervision.

20. These are physical Signs of Child Abuse: 1. Unexplained burns, cuts, bruises, or welts in the shape of an object, 2. Bite marks, 3. Anti-social behavior, 4. Problems in school  5. Fear of adults.

21. Imagination can be as important – if not more important than reason – to children.

22. Imagination allows children to practice real-life skills.

23.Imagination encourages a rich vocabulary.

24.Imagination helps children grow up to be adults who are creative thinkers.

25. Here are six vital skill sets your child should practice regularly: Reading, communication, public relations, dedication, creativity, and now computer use.

                                                               Answers:

1. T - Remember that just because you can’t see the teeth doesn't mean they aren't there. Teeth actually begin to form in the second trimester of pregnancy.

Early socialization helps kids to adjust  to their environment 

2. T - With new strains of the pathogen TB is one of the top ten causes of death in children. 
3. T - By the time your child is born, he has a fully developed brain, although parts of his brain may not reach full maturity until adolescence. In fact, when he is born, his brain contains over 1 billion brain cells! 

4. T 
5. T. However, if the neurological connections are not being made, the brain undergoes a natural pruning process, which basically does away with unused circuits. 
6. T This is one reason why you should be especially careful when choosing a caregiver.
7. F Keep in mind of the mental status and ability of the child, other than his age. 
8. F - Dynamic childhood stimulants for imagination and role-playing. 
9. F. Start early - as they physically grow up in a slow and orderly pattern, they learn to develop a taste for books and reference materials. These should suit the personal and social needs of the child. 
10. F Toys this early are an important part of development. 

11. T However, definitions vary between birth and 3 years of age. 
12. T 
13. T. Infant food formula should be is a last recourse. 
14. F. In preschoolers, separation from parents can cause anxiety. As kids get older, academic and social pressures create stress. 
15. T. Talk with your kids about how they feel about extracurricular activities. If they complain, discuss the pros and cons of quitting one activity. If quitting isn't an option, explore ways to help manage your child's time and responsibilities so that they don't create so much anxiety. 

16. T. Parents should watch how they discuss such issues when their kids are around. 
17. F Kids who see disturbing images on TV or hear talk of natural disasters, war, and terrorism may worry about their own safety and that of the people they love. Talk to your kids about what they see and hear, and monitor what they watch on TV. 
18. T. Some kids experience physical effects, including stomachaches and headaches. Others have trouble concentrating or completing schoolwork. Still others become withdrawn or spend a lot of time alone. 
19. T 
20. T. 

21. T It helps school-age children solve problems by helping them think through different outcomes to various situations and role playing ways to cope with difficult or new circumstances. 
22. T. It helps children to practice and apply new learning and better understand how those skills are used in the real world. 
23. T Telling and hearing real or made-up stories, reading books and pretend play help children learn and retain new words. 
24. T Adults who were imaginative children often become problem solvers, innovators and creative thinkers. 
25. T ~
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